Recently, I got into a discussion with a friend about how mothers always tell their beloved daughters that finding a man who loves her more than she loves him would make her happier. I wondered how one could measure that. A few days later, the question “what is love?” popped up on my newsfeed. Immediately, God reminded me of 1Cor13. Am I more patient, kinder, less self-seeking, less boastful, keeps less records of wrong etc than my partner? How could anyone give perfect love except God? God also reminded me that His perfect love casts out all fears – so we don’t have to be worried about who loves who more!